Community Guidelines

The spirit of the community

Feistafind is for adults 50+ meeting with sincerity — for friendship, companionship, dating, and relationships. Be honest in your profile, courteous in your messages, and patient with everyone's pace.

Not allowed, ever

• Harassment — unwanted, repeated, or demeaning contact
• Hate speech — attacks on anyone's race, religion, ethnicity, gender, sexuality, disability, or age
• Threats — of violence, exposure, or harm of any kind
• Fraud and scams — any deception for money or information
• Impersonation — pretending to be someone else, or photos that are not you
• Spam — bulk, commercial, or promotional messages
• Sexual exploitation — any sexual coercion, solicitation, or explicit content sent without invitation
• Financial solicitation — asking members for money, gifts, gift cards, cryptocurrency, loans, or investments
• Sharing private information — yours in unsafe ways, or anyone else's at all without consent
• Abusive behaviour — including attempts to evade blocks, bans, or moderation

How reporting works

Every profile and conversation has Report and Block options, and the Safety Center has a full reporting form. Reports are confidential: the reported member is never told who reported them.

How moderation works

Reported content is reviewed by the moderation team. Depending on severity, outcomes include guidance, warnings, content removal, account suspension, or permanent bans. Serious safety risks are escalated immediately, and suspected criminal activity may be reported to authorities.

If you disagree with a decision

Members may appeal moderation decisions through the contact page. Appeals are reviewed by a different moderator than the original decision where possible.